It can be very difficult to handle rivalry between siblings and their constant conflicting demands on you. You can foster feelings of warmth rather than competitiveness if you encourage these feelings from the beginning. Many hospitals and parent groups offer “sibling preparation” classes that can help ease anxieties before a new baby arrives. When the baby comes home, ask your older child for help in caring for the baby. Even toddler can fetch diapers, hold bottles, or stroke, the baby’s hand. Always let the older child open presents for the baby, and be sure to have plenty of small presents stashed away for the older child.